Friday, August 31, 2012

Musical Ride

This week has been an interesting one.

The most important development was Nate got a call to see if he could work starting Wednesday, which he could!  Hooray!  I might now have mentioned it on the blog, perhaps because I might have been trying to repress the fact that neither of us has been working since May 27th.

That's 3 months without work and income.  It feels like we broke some kind of world record...and not a good kind of record that you want to shout from the mountain tops about, or hang a plaque on the wall.

But hey, we survived.  And I guess that is what we would be shouting from the mountain tops: God has provided.  We had support of family and friends.  We had a roof over our heads, clothes to wear, and food to eat.  We are doing well.  It's a good reminder to be humble and to realize how little "stuff" you need to get by.

However, big on the "stuff" list we really feel the need for is a car.  Again.  Yes, we just sold the Jetta before coming to Canada, but in order for a higher level of freedom without cramping Ma and Pa Weeb's style over the next few months we realize we need to buy another car.

So this week (and last) Nate has been systematically researching cars and scouring used car listings.  I did a little but quickly realized that Nate seems to really love the hunt and since I don't really care what we get as long as it's reliable and affordable, it was much more time effective to let Nate do the looking.

We test drove a few earlier this week: one I couldn't get out the passenger side of the car once the door was latched and Nate had to release the door from the outside, another didn't even start when we tried to turn it on, another we walked away from due to some pretty major inconsistencies in what the seller was saying about it. 

Example: "You can drive it but just doing leave the housing edition please, there is no insurance on it right now, it just sits here all day."  (5min later when we asked to look in the trunk at the spare) "Yeah sure, let me just unload my suitcase and cooler of bottles we just got back from Niagra."

Tomorrow Nate has lined up a few more private sellers.  Pray we find a winner so we don't have to keep looking!

Other interesting notes about this week:  I ended up driving a friend of the family who fell outside the house to the ER.  I was the only one home when I realized what had happened and when she asked me if I could drive my response was yes, but when she asked me where the closest ER was....uhhh???  Not from around here...I have no idea.  

She said never mind, we will go to the one she knows.

So that's what we did.  I drove and she told me where to go.  After she was admitted and waiting for stitches, I dropped off her car back at her house, explained to her husband that his wife fell and she would need some stitches and she would need him to pick her up at and I walked home.  

But I will end on a positive interesting note.
Last night I went to the RCMP Musical Ride.  If you are anything like me you are asking what is RCMP?  Well let me fill you in.  It's the Royal Canadian Mounted Police.  

And they perform every year with 32 horses and men/women that volunteer from the police force to train for this show.  They said they had around 350 application this last year and then they whittle them down to about 35 officers who are selected for the show.  Let me be honest and tell you, I'm pretty confident I'd never heard of this before or seen it on TV but apparently it's a pretty big deal and they even performed in England for the Queen's Jubilee.  So as I was hearing some of the background information, I was thinking more along the lines of classical musical numbers that the horses and riders moved to, but much to my surprise it opened with a few country honky tonk songs.  Not a single classical piece in the show.  But it was fun to see and it's obvious much time and training goes into this.  It was a good experience.


Tuesday, August 21, 2012

Holding Pattern...

If you haven't already heard the news:  We have been delayed for awhile.

This week we had originally planned to arrive on Guam and begin our new life there.  But we had unexpected setbacks with new paperwork guidelines for Nate (the Canadian) to work in Guam (U.S. territory) and as we assessed our options to move forward, it looks like applying for a green card for Nate will be the best way forward.  So while this will be best for the long run, it delays our arrival for maybe 6 months.  There is no way to know for sure.  Perhaps it will work faster than that or perhaps longer but we are happy to have a plan of action and work toward that!

So in the meantime we are doing the work to reframe our situation and not think of all the negatives or disappointment in not being able to arrive on Guam this week to realizing there will be gifts in the extra time we have to be in North America.

* We will be able to experience the beauty of another fall season.  We both love this weather and all the activities it brings with fall festivals, changing leaves, and jeans and sweater weather.

* Having additional opportunities to see family and friends we would not have otherwise had.

* Having God do a work in us to have a better understanding of walking in faith.

We did decide after assessing the situation that we will stay in Canada during this time.  There is several potential work avenues for Nate he has already been approached with, and on the flip side finding work back in the states for me would be much more difficult.  We are also thankful that Nate's parents have a basement apt. that we can stay in and utilize during this time.

We also remind ourselves that God's timing is perfect in all things so there are reasons we must be facing these delays.   Perhaps there is still work God wants to do in us before we leave, and things He wants to do in the church on Guam before we arrive.  We are doing our best to trust him every step of the way.

You can continue to encourage us with your thoughts and prayers and we will continue to keep you posted on what our journey is like.

Wednesday, August 1, 2012

Anniversary #2

We made it!!!

Well, not that it's the biggest anniversary ever, but we reached number 2 this week.  And so far I really love our anniversaries and celebrating us!

Last year we spent it visiting Guam.

This year it was just as exotic.  We spent our anniversary in Toronto and did all things Canadian!

We took the GO train into the city and had a short walk to check into our hotel and then head out for dinner at none other than Wayne Gretzky's restaurant.  At this fine establishment I had my first taste of Canadian poutine (french fries, cheese curds, and brown gravy) and we finished our dining experience with #99 hockey puck made of brownie/cookie with ice cream on the side.

With our belly's full we headed over to Toronto's "The Second City" to have our funny bones tickled.  It's a comedy venue where they do skits and improve and they did a wonderful job!  We found the skits very current, poking fun at social media, relationships, politics etc.

We enjoyed the beautiful evening afterwards as we walked back to the hotel and as I walked I wondered where we might be celebrating our anniversary next year. ;)